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Unique Self Coaching

Unique Self coaching focusses on the topic of all topics - The ultimate question of " who am i?". Philosopher Ken Wilber’s Integral Theory merged with the Unique Self dharma as articulated by Dr Marc Gafni is the basis for Unique Self Coaching. Its’ articulation of the human journey through the necessary individuation we call the separate self to the non-dual realization that we are "One" to the recognition that we are each a unique expression of that "One" provides an elegant and practical framework for growth.

The Unique Self is not a concept but a quality of presence that is embodied as we awaken to our interconnectedness and grow beyond our sense of separation. We believe it is the purpose for existence because it is from here that we can most fully offer our gifts to the world.

Researchers have given us irrefutable evidence that humans continue to grow throughout our lifetime. Spiritual teachers ancient and modern echo that truth. As our world becomes increasingly complex, it is imperative that we grow into deeper and wider stages of development in order to navigate and assist our world’s evolution.

The Unique Self Coaching Process, is a powerful change technology I co-created with my colleague Barbara Alexander as our contribution to evolving consciousness. This process is designed to tap into Creative Source to engage your unique potential and facilitate its emergence as your Unique Self. Because the process facilitates getting to the heart of whom you are and how the creative impulse of Ultimate Reality wants to express through you, it has many applications. Whether you are seeking spiritual connection and development, wanting to understand why your life is no longer fulfilling or exploring your life’s purpose, this process will help.

 

So, How does it work?

 

There are three phases to the Unique Self Coaching Process: Immersion, Emergence and Embodiment.

In the Immersion Phase we use several exploration tools to access a comprehensive view of how you perceive yourself and the world. This perspective is often invisible to you. Not only is it invisible but also it unknowingly prevents you from making the changes you desire. While it has many positive qualities, you’ll find that its limiting qualities can serve as a “foot on the brake” that gets in the way of your “foot on the pedal” desire to change. Once we have a clear picture of your perspective and exactly what you wish to change we move to the second phase of the process.

In the Emergence Phase we’ll chart a path toward a deeper and wider way of being, one that involves learning new competencies through specific practices, reflection, feedback and support. It begins by teaching you ways to identify and release your limiting qualities or False Self Pattern. As you loosen the grip of your pattern, you’ll engage in practices that assist you to drop more deeply into your True Self, that experiential reality of interconnectness with Source. From here you’ll engage in practices to identify and foster your Unique Self, the amazing and particular way that Source shows up as you, that is different than anyone else in the world.

The Embodiment Phase completes the Unique Self Coaching Process as it celebrates the conclusion of the coaching process and grounds your unique offering so that you can be of greater service to the world.

The length of time of each individual coaching program varies depending on the person but generally the process takes between 9 – 12 months.

Please visit www.uniqueselfcoaching.com for addtional information on Unique Self coaching and coach training. 

 

 

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Unique Self Coaching

There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is Unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. 

 

Martha Graham

''There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open ... You have to keep yourself open and aware to the urges that motivate you ...''

Martha Graham. 

Unique Self Coaching